V-Day is Approaching.......Are you ready

February 14 is rapidly approaching. Single girls are running around scheming to get some guy to be their Valentine.....and guys are either frantic, completely oblivious, or coming up with a way to dump their girl to get out of spending money and having to deal with the Valentines Day fiasco. I personally usually forget about Valentines until I receive a Valentines gift......don't judge me I'm a tomboy :p. But for many females Valentines  Day is a big deal! So I'm bored and I figured why not give a few V-Day tips and ideas. Here goes........

1.) Pay attention to your man/woman. Every female doesn't like chocolate, balloons, and stuffed animals. Before you pay a small fortune for gifts and flowers that she won't like, Think about them as a person.

2.) Ladies, men like to be appreciated too! Spoil him for a change! Take him out on a date.....show up at his door in a trench coat ;-).  He'll be surprised and appreciate the love.

Lol this just made me laugh

3.) Be creative. Dinner and a movie is cute.....but if you want to impress (or you're trying to get out of the doghouse) step your game up! Tickets to the game of his favorite sports team, the aquarium, museum, tickets to see her favorite band etc.

4.) Make reservations!!!!!!! The last thing you want to do on V-Day is sit/stand for hours waiting on a table.

5.) Ladies: STOP BUILDING EXPECTATIONS SOOOOO HIGH!!!! Its JUST VALENTINES DAY!! I'm not saying lower your standards. But it's important to remember that he's a MAN! He probably doesn't even remember Valentines Day until he sees all the heart-shaped stuff. You'll enjoy whatever he does a lot more if you stopped expecting fireworks, dinner at the most expensive restaurant, diamonds, and a helicopter........... Chill out!!!!

6.) Guys: Sometimes all she wants is a little love, time, and attention. Take off work and just spend the day with her.

7.) Last but not least is (drum roll please)......... FOOD!!!!! Feed him or her!!! If you can't do anything else, supply food........at least dessert lol! Fact: Great food is the way to the heart.





If Money is Tight:
1.) Cook dinner, grab some candles, and a blanket and go eat in a park.
2.) Give each other massages
3.) Grab some ice cream cones and take a walk in a park


.......You get the idea.

   Romance is in the eye of the beholder assess the man/woman you're with and plan accordingly. Whether its a fancy dinner/night on the town, hiking and picnic in a park, museum date.....whatever it is, Enjoy the time you spend together.......I mean that's whats important right  ;-)

 SN: If you are single or don't have a love interest for V-Day....PLEASE.....I repeat PLEASE DO NOT BE BITTER!!!!! It's not attractive and it doesn't help you feel any better. Make someone you love or care about your Valentine and make that day special for them.....and then keep it moving :)

Love,
The Dream-Killer

My FAVORITE BALLADS :)

I like, I love.....I'm in love with ballads (Don't judge me). But a good ballad showcases the true vocal talents of a musical artist.....And this song definitely does it. Christina Aguilera is AMAZING :)......That is all

Duffy Live.......Endlessly. Such a mellow beautiful song. Love it.

Oops Did I Say That Out Loud?!?

It's always been an unwritten law in society for females to be silent,demure, beautiful, domestic, sexy but at the same time the least sexual of the male/female species. Because of this most women hide a lot of the feelings they may have, in the fear of being improper or out of place. Most woman who speak exactly what is on their mind are considered loud, bi**y, our just plain out of line. There are few strong women who speak their minds, and do what they want and are met with complete positivity and applause.Women who act on the sexual desires that they have are considered loose, nasty, freaks, hoes, and whores....none of which are positive connotations (Not to say there aren't loose woman and men, whores, and hoes, because there definitely are!!).Which is why women bury their desires and a lot of their thoughts.....That being said women are the sneakiest, intuitive, smartest, scheming counterpart of the human species. Even the dumbest female has some scheming ways in her system. You can't fool a good woman. You might think you have but the truth is: she saw what you were doing and just made the decision to ignore it.This doesn't mean that all women are using them to deceive or use for "evil",this simply means if you have a good smart girl in your life....SHE KNOWS when you're cheating, lying, and she may know who you're cheating or lying with. She may choose to ignore the signs....but she d**n sure sees them. After quite a few conversations I have come to the conclusion that most males are slightly oblivious to the intelligence and many ways of a woman.....so I decided to reveal a few. Just keep it on the low, I told you nothing.


1. Most women have spotted you, scanned you mentally, and decided if they want to have sex with you long before you approach them. The may not ever do it.....but they definitely thought about it.


2. Don't tell a dumb lie to a smart female.....I.E Her:Have you talked to/had sex with anyone at our school? His lie: Nah never. '___' Dumb lie, and truth will be revealed in a couple phone calls,texts, or friendly conversations.


3. Girls are sneaky and smart. Women Girls will spot your picture in a mutual friends photo album, and do everything in their power to create some kind of "chance meeting".


4. A lot of females DO NOT CARE THAT YOU HAVE A GIRLFRIEND!!! Sad but true. They will flirt, try to get you to have sex with them and/or steal you from your girl! Don't be a fool! When your girl tells you that your coworker or mutual friend is into you and stay away from her (unless she's paranoid and jealous), she's Not Crazy!!! She just sees the signs.


5. Females give subtle/not so subtle hints that they are trying to *cough get it on cough*. Most women don't want to come off as loose, because thats how it will be perceived if they just SAY IT *Neyo voice*.
A few Subtle/Unsubtle Hints:
-The "change into something comfortable" trick. If the girl comes down barely dressed and wants to "watch a movie in her bedroom"....most likely its a hint


-If a girl tells you to come over to her place, or come to yours and get intoxicated with her...hint


-You're spooning and she gives you a nudge with her rear (hahaha) very unsubtle hint


-You're cuddling and she puts her hand under your shirt and rubs your lower abs......HINT HINT HINT!!!!


Don't misconstrue the teasing rubbing the ears, kisses, rubbing your back.....because sometimes that's just exactly what it is. A rub and a kiss (hahahaha)....or she's just a tease, what can I say sometimes its entertaining ;)


Not all women shade their desires/feelings....some of them voice them loud and clear and don't give a care in the world what others may think of them (not whores, different thing all together)....I applaud these women. Go head girl :)


Ok guys let me stop disclosing information before they find me lol...........Til next time.

Love,
The Dream-Killer

A Tomorrow that's Never Promised.....

It's amazing how we push things off until tomorrow, a day that is never promised to us. We push off everything: dieting, love, and achieving our goals due to fear of failure, things people may say, or just plain laziness. Then one day we wake up and realize all the time we've wasted putting it off til tomorrow . It's terrifying to think that one day I'll wake up and all my goals and dreams will be out of my reach because I was waiting for another date. What's even more terrifying to me is not waking up....dying tomorrow and never doing what I set out to do because I was waiting for a day that was never mine. Death is horrifying. You never know when it's coming, when it will steal your tomorrow, when it will put an end to all of our procrastination. I don't want to leave this earth unfulfilled. I don't want to be on my death be on my death bed and have simple regrets that I didn't go for my dreams, I didn't forgive, or I didn't love the way I should have. I refuse to wait til tomorrow to work for what I want, tell my family and friends I love them, or just LIVE LIFE! Never put off for tomorrow what you can do today. Utilize the talents and gifts that you're blessed with, don't let them go to waste. Make sure your loved ones know that they're loved and appreciated. You never know when your "tomorrow" will be taken from you. 







Grandad,
 I love you, I miss you, and I promise that I'll make you proud. You're forever in my heart, always in my mind, and you'll continue to live through the ones who love you.

Love,
Your Sheboo
R.I.P. Alfred Hill 11/27/10

Kiss

I can't forget the first one, how it caught me off guard,
Happened on our second date on our way to the car.
You know the first when everything is new,
And you're waiting on the other one to make the first move.
Then there's one thats the beginning of the start,
The one when I realized you hold  my heart.
The one you gave me to seal the deal,
Right after you told me your love was real.
And then the one you gave me on an angry cheek,
After that argument that lasted nearly a week.
There's the one you gave me after we made up,
On the side of my neck, whispering words of love.
The one you gave me before we said goodbye,
It always hurt to leave you, nearly made me cry.
The ones you gave me on the forehead just to let me know you care,
A shoulder to lean on when I needed you there.
The one in the rain, the one I'll always remember,
And I'll never forget our final one we gave last December
Stared at each other, remembering the things that we'd miss,
Then before we walked away, we sealed the end with a kiss.

Another One for My Yeezy fans :)