V-Day is Approaching.......Are you ready

February 14 is rapidly approaching. Single girls are running around scheming to get some guy to be their Valentine.....and guys are either frantic, completely oblivious, or coming up with a way to dump their girl to get out of spending money and having to deal with the Valentines Day fiasco. I personally usually forget about Valentines until I receive a Valentines gift......don't judge me I'm a tomboy :p. But for many females Valentines  Day is a big deal! So I'm bored and I figured why not give a few V-Day tips and ideas. Here goes........

1.) Pay attention to your man/woman. Every female doesn't like chocolate, balloons, and stuffed animals. Before you pay a small fortune for gifts and flowers that she won't like, Think about them as a person.

2.) Ladies, men like to be appreciated too! Spoil him for a change! Take him out on a date.....show up at his door in a trench coat ;-).  He'll be surprised and appreciate the love.

Lol this just made me laugh

3.) Be creative. Dinner and a movie is cute.....but if you want to impress (or you're trying to get out of the doghouse) step your game up! Tickets to the game of his favorite sports team, the aquarium, museum, tickets to see her favorite band etc.

4.) Make reservations!!!!!!! The last thing you want to do on V-Day is sit/stand for hours waiting on a table.

5.) Ladies: STOP BUILDING EXPECTATIONS SOOOOO HIGH!!!! Its JUST VALENTINES DAY!! I'm not saying lower your standards. But it's important to remember that he's a MAN! He probably doesn't even remember Valentines Day until he sees all the heart-shaped stuff. You'll enjoy whatever he does a lot more if you stopped expecting fireworks, dinner at the most expensive restaurant, diamonds, and a helicopter........... Chill out!!!!

6.) Guys: Sometimes all she wants is a little love, time, and attention. Take off work and just spend the day with her.

7.) Last but not least is (drum roll please)......... FOOD!!!!! Feed him or her!!! If you can't do anything else, supply food........at least dessert lol! Fact: Great food is the way to the heart.





If Money is Tight:
1.) Cook dinner, grab some candles, and a blanket and go eat in a park.
2.) Give each other massages
3.) Grab some ice cream cones and take a walk in a park


.......You get the idea.

   Romance is in the eye of the beholder assess the man/woman you're with and plan accordingly. Whether its a fancy dinner/night on the town, hiking and picnic in a park, museum date.....whatever it is, Enjoy the time you spend together.......I mean that's whats important right  ;-)

 SN: If you are single or don't have a love interest for V-Day....PLEASE.....I repeat PLEASE DO NOT BE BITTER!!!!! It's not attractive and it doesn't help you feel any better. Make someone you love or care about your Valentine and make that day special for them.....and then keep it moving :)

Love,
The Dream-Killer